I think the measure of how good of a friend someone is with you can easily be calculated by how many activities you are willing to do with that friend.
There’s a lot of activities in life you can enjoy with someone else, and most of them are surprisingly intimate. For instance, I would be pretty down to watch a movie with some acquaintances, but feel kinda reluctant to get smashed with them.
There’s drinking socially, drinking unhealthily, eating, sleeping, watching a movie/show, playing sports, playing games, going on a trip, having discussions on retarded shit, having discussions on deep philosophical issues that you value, etc etc.
If you have a friend and you’d feel comfortable and find it enjoyable to do a lot of the aforementioned activities with that friend, he/she is probably a close friend of yours.
If you had a blast playing some games with one of your friends and then tried to have some deep talk while drinking and found out that it just didn’t work out, he’s probably just a middlingly close friend.
You get the idea. Pretty simple but effective way to gauge friendships I think.
i say its all based on shared memories
the more you two people can understand each other, the closer they will feel for each other
i think the need for being understood is one of the biggest needs a person has
think about it. why the hell do we blog? hahaha
Comment by central21 — March 27, 2011 @ 4:03 pm
why are you so astute i hate you
Comment by juhanedang — March 27, 2011 @ 4:30 pm