It has been contested many times that the sexually-proactive male and female being viewed in different light is sexist. There is also the popular saying that a key that unlocks every lock is a master key, but a lock that gets unlocked by every key is a shitty lock.
Even around me, guys think its a virtue to be able to “꼬셔” a girl and eventually get her to sleep with them. (Bonus points if it happens on the same day.)
Girls, however, need to keep their sexual activities a tightly guarded secret lest they be labeled as whores. I know that among close friends girls do discuss sexual activities as eagerly as a cohort of guys, but that doesn’t count obviously. A guy’s first reaction when he hears that a guy friend of his has had 17 sexual partners in the past 2 years will be: “I need to be closer friends with him so I can learn from this pussy-magnet!” If he hears the same thing about his female friend: “What a WHORE. I need to get all up in that and take a piece of that cake myself!” or something.
This is innately unfair, obviously, and many explanations for this phenomenon have been given such as males being respected for being able to spread their seed and ensure survival of his offspring via multi-thronged penis attacks into many women’s vaginas, male sexuality expression being generally more acceptable in society than that of female’s, etc.
Even though I’m rambling about this stupid shit, I cannot say that I’m not guilty of this double standard myself. If (BIG IF GUYS COMEON) I were somewhat successful at getting into attractive women’s panties, I’d probably flaunt that ability 24/7. But, if I were a girl, I’d probably be reeeeal careful about whose penis I let into my treasure chest. Is it just due to the society and its paradigms? Is this the way it should be? Do whores have more sexual appeal than non-whores or is it just their willingness that makes it easier? Should guys be considered man-whores or should they instead be rewarded for the hard work they go through just to get their dicks wet?
Please leave your opinions in the comments below (I don’t actually expect any of you to respond to such vulgar and uncouth matters lest you be exposed for the pervert you are)
I am glad you know girls talk to each other so explicitly. It is funny and a bit of a turn off at the same time.
The fact is both sexes want it as bad as the other. The only difference is girls can get it easier. A girl can get laid any night she wants. If she wants it she gets it; just goes to a bar and finds a guy.
Unless a guy has an obscene amount of game or is thought of as very handsome he will have trouble where a girl does not; because girls make the choice as to who they let get it in.
Comment by Jimz — March 28, 2011 @ 4:03 am